As adolescent idiopathic scoliosis is often diagnosed in childhood or adolescence, the impact on mental health can have long term effects and needs to be managed in a nurturing way.
Young children and teenagers are always learning, developing and comparing themselves to others so when their body is potentially seen as ‘different’ to everybody eles’s, this can lead to comparisons, on them by themselves, or by others. Whether they are innocent comments or bullying, it could still take a toll on your child.
Self Esteem
Dealing with low self-esteem in your child can be heartbreaking, especially if you see them start to distance themselves from others which may cause issues with their ability to develop meaningful relationships with their peers.
Kids with scoliosis don’t always have low self esteem, and as a parent you can encourage them and try to shine a light for them when they are feeling low so as not to let it go too far. Reminding them that this condition is not their fault and happens to many thousands of people, old and young, around the world, can really put it into perspective for them.
If you child is feeling low, they might actively avoid others and social situations. This perception of being antisocial could lead to further isolation – creating a cycle. You can support them in this area by suggesting suitable events you know they would enjoy and encouraging them to accept themselves, so that they can let others in. Soft and gentle encouragement is always a good idea to support your child through their own psychological journey with scoliosis.
The physical symptoms that a teen or child may be suffering from can leave them feeling limited in how they can participate in their lives. Remind them that everybody is different and they can have things tweaked to support them physically so that they don’t miss out. Speak to teachers or group leaders to see what things can be put into place subtly, so your child doesn’t feel like a burden.
Communication is Key
A tailored treatment program created with an expert consultant will give your child confidence that their scoliosis will not take over their life. Make sure they are involved with decisions as much as possible and communicate positively what these treatments can mean for them long term. At Braced for Scoliosis we are passionate about your child’s recovery and welfare and will always do our upmost to support your chosen route for them.
If you child suffers from symptoms like pain and fatigue, these can quickly start to wear on their mental health, so it’s best to sort their treatment as soon as you can. Having the right support can make a huge difference mentally. So once physical symptoms are managed, tackle any issues with your child’s mental health right away. This means letting them talk to you and vent how they’re feeling and hearing out any of their worries.
Also, it means letting them have their space to process what is going on in their heads. Many parents focus on seeking physical treatment, which is important, but it is equally important to nurture their emotional health.
Parental support and guidance – showing empathy, being a good role model, listening to them – is so important. We are here to support to, so please talk to us before, during or after your consultation should you need to.
Positive Mindset
For anyone diagnosed with scoliosis, it’s important to realise that it doesn’t have to affect their quality of life. Many people with well managed symptoms realise their full potential and are not defined by their condition. With the right treatment, tools, mindset and support, life with scoliosis can be both fulfilling and enjoyable.